One of the most challenging things is staying focused and positive.  When everything around us seems to be doing the opposite, we can remain calm.  It is times like these that we indeed show who we are.  Everything good or bad about us seems to surface, and we can learn by becoming even better if we choose.  Taking the route of doing exceptionally can cause things to land in their proper place.  We can trust our fate to goodness, after all.  It just takes time.

By letting go of all the pressure, we can maintain our calm.  It is almost like turning your back on problems.  Acknowledge the trouble but don’t let it get under your skin to allow it to cause pain.  The idea is to set yourself apart and keep going through the obstacle.  It may not be easy, but it is possible.

Usually, we want nothing more than to cave into our humanness.  Quite honestly, it is a mistake of grand proportions to fall into the trap of self-pity.  It is the easy way out.  Knowing that alone should cause you to gain control over yourself in this area.

You can choose to win.  You can choose to lift yourself moderately.    Find a way to reflect and ensure you’re not caught up in pride.  Nor are you eager to go into a nearby ditch!

Being phenomenal is doable.  There is no formula.  There is no set of instructions.  So much of the time it’s like being in a dark tunnel in which only grace will carry you through!