Self-esteem cannot be purchased in a store or acquired by watching a movie.  Also, there are no courses in school, but it is something to grow up with.  Therefore, eventually, responsibility is borne through the years of learning.  Adapting involves gearing up and going onward, even in the face of rejection.  However, occasionally there remain some who are fragile.  In this case, more understanding and mercy are required for a good resolution.